How Yoga Helped Me Cope During a Tough Time

This past summer was a chaotic time in my life. I was dealing with a big move out of New York City, leaving my friends and family, and trying to acclimate to a new community, which I did not know much about. I was tense and anxious, and my body felt tight and fatigued.

I always knew yoga had its benefits, but I never got into it while living in New York. I felt it was too slow and I was unable to clear my head. But once I moved to New England, I felt it was time to start taking yoga.

So in between unpacking boxes, I headed to a light-filled yoga studio in Providence that offered 45-minute Vinyasa flow classes, which taught the basics and how to focus on the breath.

After a few classes, I was hooked. I felt calmer, more rooted, lighter and at peace with my move. โ€œPracticing yoga regularly takes deep dedication, but if you are struggling with something and can feel that the yoga practice is helping you with it, youโ€™re much more likely to stick with it,โ€ explains Bristol Maryott, owner and yoga instructor at Jala Studio Yoga & Art in Providence, Rhode Island (and one of my favorite yoga studios). โ€œIn any time of transformation we become attuned to what brings us solace and we really appreciate it.โ€

As time has passed, Iโ€™ve incorporated longer Vinyasa classes and hot yoga into my schedule. Itโ€™s been a great anxiety reliever and nice way to decompress during the day. My body is being challenged in different ways. I feel stronger, more flexible and it has helped relieve tension that I carry in my neck and shoulders. I also noticed my skin has a glow and I sleep better.

โ€œWith continued practice thereโ€™s a wonderful faith in your body and its abilities,โ€ explains Maryott. โ€œThe deep rhythmic breathing calms the nervous system and the focus required helps to the quiet the mind.โ€

Iโ€™m still feeling things out in yoga and learning a lot. Iโ€™m not there yet on more advanced poses (headstands, handstands and crazy body twists), but just being in the moment breathing and focusing on the poses has felt nurturing. So, for a girl who never engaged in yoga much, here in my new life in New England Iโ€™ll be continuing to say โ€œNamaste.โ€

Iโ€™m curious, do you take yoga? What is your favorite way to calm your mind? And in a time of transition, what got you through it? Leave your comments below.

Photo taken by Tara DeLaive at Jala Studio Yoga & Art in Providence, Rhode Island.

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